Month: June 2015

  • Let us discuss Racism, Shall We?

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    For those that have followed me a long time on this blog, you know that I don't address controversial topics that often.  In fact, I prefer to find common ground on topics and move forward together.

    The picture in this post is a screen shot of the definition of racism.   I share this so we can discuss a bit more about this topic....

    First, a little background about me:  I'm listed as a caucasian (white) male.  I grew up mainly in Northern California in a predominantly white small town in the east bay of San Francisco.   However, I have had an eclectic group of friends over the years from various backgrounds.

    Personally I never understood racism.  The concept that one group of people is 'better' than another based on skin color is lacking on so many levels, all it shows is a significant amount of ignorance.

    If we look at History and the subject of racism, it's not always a black or white issue.   Every 'race' throughout history has had a group of people that has had prejudice towards them in some way.   I don't want to downplay any group of people, but just trying to put things into perspective when discussing racism.

    For example:

    When we look at the United States History... the Europeans who landed in the new world perceived the Native Americans as barbaric.
    If one was an immigrant from Ireland - you were thought of as being a lesser person.   Same if you were Asian origin and worked on the railroads.

    There are indentured servants, and there is slavery.   Although much of the population of slaves were from Africa, there were slaves of other origins as well.

    I think society has looked at racism on such a surface level, and with media so focused on the color of our skin - we have lost site at what it's really about... 'cultural identity'.

    Allow me to explain my thought on this before everyone goes crazy here...

    I'm sure that my DNA will show that I'm predominately a white person - of european descent.   Who knows what other DNA strands may show about my family lineage.   When people ask what race I am, I usually say 'white'... or if I am really honest... I'm human.   As last I checked, that's what we really are when we look at the big picture.   For all I know, I may have african or native american DNA in me.   With both sides of my family traced to the prior founding of the colonies - I'm sure that somewhere in my lineage my DNA has strands from various continents.

    But we are so much more than the color of our skin.   We are individuals who were born into different segments of society.  These segments are the different communities that are around us, with each community having it's own cultural differences...thus its own cultural identity.

    Does someone really choose where they are born and who their parents are?  no, we don't have that choice.   This is called life, and what we do with our life is up to us.   We all have choices in this regard.   We can either choose to live how our ancestors used to, or choose to change.

    There is a significant amount of history with each community, and this history must be respected and preserved.   We may not like what one community has done to another - but knowing what did happen so we don't repeat it is paramount of growing as a society.

    So, when someone talks to me about racism - it's so much more than just the color of one's skin.  It's about a group of people, about their history as a community.  It's about infringement on someone else's rights to believe what they believe, and to keep the history of their culture available for all to learn from and understand.

    We must not combat racism with another form of racism either, as that is similar to fighting bullying by being a bully ourselves.   We must educate ourselves, and encourage one another to understand the differences.

    In short, we must look beyond the color of one's skin, and focus on the content of one's character.

    Sound familiar?   It should.   And we should by now, be living it.

    It's our history, our heritage.   Let's preserve it and learn from it.

  • The Autisable Logo - A Deeper Meaning

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    I've been involved in a discussion on Autisable's group page on LinkedIn.

    For the past 6 years Autisable has been focused on sharing all aspects of what life is like with Autism, from all perspectives.

    Those new to the website and what we're about are having concerns.  Some of these concerns reflect on Autisable's logo and tag line.

    After Autisable relaunches, we will be updating the tag line, which currently reads, "real blogs from people tackling the puzzle of autism."

    This tag line is out dated for a number of reasons:
    1 - aren't most blogs written by 'real people' anyway?
    2 - the words 'tackling the puzzle of autism' really doesn't define what Autisable has become.   This phrase also has struck a negative chord with many who are on the spectrum.

    The puzzle piece logo is also something that several in the community take offense at, primarily because some on the spectrum don't want to be defined as being a puzzle piece.

    But, a lot of work went into the design of the logo, and the name.  So allow me to share some thoughts as to the name 'Autisable' and the 'logo' and what we're doing...

    First - our puzzle piece logo is based on several factors, as it is a remnant of Xanga.com's primary colors from the company that founded Autisable six years ago.   It has become a brand that many have identified with, and many with and without autism have responded to us (and me directly) that Autisable remains objective and understanding - and that we have a good reputation.

    It is easy to assume that our puzzle piece logo is only about Autism, and although the puzzle piece is itself highly recognizable to represent Autism... that's not our focus on our use of it in our logo, but rather a by product of it being used.   Some corporate logos do have multiple meanings, and ours falls into that category.

    The triangle logo, consisting of 4 color puzzle pieces joined together is about community... and therefore has a deeper meaning...

    Allow me to explain further...

    Each triangle puzzle piece represents the different facets of our community, coming together to discuss all perspectives. They are not standing alone, like many puzzle piece logos of other autism organizations.  Ours are together, united.   Therefore, it is not about Autism itself, but rather the community - the parent/caregivers, the non-profits, the siblings... and the adults who are on the spectrum.   Each part of our community is a significant component.   We're all in this together.

    So the puzzle pieces (for us) isn't about autism, it's about the different parts of our community.

    To explain the logo a bit further as to its design...

    the four puzzle pieces are like parts of an arrowhead that when united, are pointing to the word 'Autisable' - which is two words combined "Autism and Able"  (not to be confused with ableism, which we find rather offensive as well).    We simply are providing a means by which anyone is able to share and discuss anything associated with Autism, without judgement... and with respect.

    So we submit that our logo is a community coming together to discuss and share about Autism.

    While personally I'm only a neurotypical parent of a child with Autism, I'm regularly discussing what Autisable is about with everyone, especially people with Autism.   From Mike Buckholtz to John Elder Robison, to Stuart Duncan and the list goes on....  I'm always making sure Autisable remains objective and balanced in the discussions surrounding Autism and the community.

    People with Autism share their journey, and educate many on what works, and what doesn't.  We've learned a great deal from people who have autism, and are constantly improving as a result.

    Parents and Caregivers have their perspective, as they have their own set of challenges as well.

    Non-profits and Corporations have their purpose, and try to help the best they can.

    Everyone must be heard.

    We are promoting discussion, on all sides of the issues surrounding Autism.   I understand that by doing so we open ourselves up to scrutiny on every side, and that's ok.   Our purpose is to look for the common points we can all agree on and move forward with.

     

    We know that our tag line is out dated.  Much has been done in the past 6 years to educate the general public (and us) on the subject of Autism.   We now know that 'tackling the puzzle of autism' has actually caused more harm than good, and we are working on way to capture more of what we are about and what we've become.

     

    We've connected with several hundred bloggers (with and without autism) and dozens of non-profits to bring the ever dynamic discussion of autism to the general public.

     

    Prior to this past year, where our site was shut down due to it being overhauled, we reached hundreds of thousands of people each month - many not knowing anything more about Autism then what the media brought to the table with such topics as vaccinations or the movie Rainman.

     

    We want the general public to know and understand just how diverse Autism is, and its impact on being a part of an individual or family, or even society.

     

    Bottom line:  We want the general public to know more about how those with Autism deserve the same respect and opportunity as anyone else.